beautiful, cruel, amazing, stupid, miraculous, unfair, awesome, a pain, joyful, sad, peaceful, destructive.....
life is different for everyone.
life is always changing. perhaps that's why we can't predict our future.
people always ask, "what is the meaning of life?" get an education, work, grow old, and die? that's it? there's has got to be more to life than that right? i believe the things you do, and the people you're with can change your perspective on life.
i also think that living is like going through a routine, wake up, go to college, go for classes, come back, finish your assignments, sleep. the only thing different is by being with your friends. their unpredictable and they're all fun.
so let's all have tonnes of friends and enjoy life. who knows, we may really be dying in 2012.
Sunday, November 22, 2009
love?
nope. not human love between the opposite sex. human love towards animals. im sick of hearing about people abusing their pets. why would they keep a pet if they can't love it?
i don't think animal lovers should hit their pets too when it does something wrong. for example, you can spray water at cats or dogs if they did something wrong. im am all out against animal abuse.
we have pets such as cats, dogs, hamsters, rat, snakes, and much more for companion and love. like humans, animals make mistakes too(peeing on your rug..etc) but once you've trained it, it doesn't do it anymore.
so let's all give animals a chance! they're loyal and loving to us, stop beating em'!
Thursday, November 19, 2009
A woman's language=D
9 WORDS WOMEN USE
1. Fine : This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.
2. Five Minutes : If she is getting dressed, this means a 1/2 hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.
3. Nothing : This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.
4. Go Ahead : This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!
5. Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to #3 for the meaning of nothing.)
6. That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.
7. Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or Faint. Just say you're welcome.
8. Whatever: Is a women's way of saying F@CK YOU!
9. Don't worry about it, I got it :Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to #3.
Sunday, November 15, 2009
-Getting the Wrong Meaning-
sorry.. accidently posted an empty post.. ^^
Have anyone had over come when you're communicating, you're saying something that is totally different by the understanding from the other person?
Yesterday, when I was talking with my friends about our plannings for vacation, on the phone, when we were planning it on the phone. We were chatting over it for approximately 30 mins. Guess what, as we are planning, my friend missunderstood that I was saying that vacation plan for fun, which is my dreams. haha!
In that time, I was like stunned. Was reallt shocked that she actually did not take my words seriously, and I've got to repeat everything once more. *sight*
~Kelly Tan~
Have anyone had over come when you're communicating, you're saying something that is totally different by the understanding from the other person?
Yesterday, when I was talking with my friends about our plannings for vacation, on the phone, when we were planning it on the phone. We were chatting over it for approximately 30 mins. Guess what, as we are planning, my friend missunderstood that I was saying that vacation plan for fun, which is my dreams. haha!
In that time, I was like stunned. Was reallt shocked that she actually did not take my words seriously, and I've got to repeat everything once more. *sight*
~Kelly Tan~
concerts
the best thing about going to rock concerts is letting go of yourself. no more rules on how to act. no judgement. no more stress. just you being you.
a great way of relieving stress and giving a big F you to the world. you scream your hearts out, u get to be violent too(by pushing people around).
i've been to quite a few concerts and i shall give you some tips on how to survive.. especially if you're in the mosh pit.
1. if you're with a friend. never let go of their hand.. if you do, you are sure to be seperated.
2. now is not the time to be nice. cut through the people to get in front! be smart though. dn go cut scary people's place
3. always sneak in water. or buy water before the concert starts.
4. dont get too excited when the opening act begins. it's a waste of energy. seriously.remember, you only have limited amount of water.
5. you've got to be violent.. jump on people's feet. PUSH the people.
6. always ALWAYS wear sport shoes or sneakers
7. DONT wear skirts.. you insane?
8. there's a high possibility you may get groped.. like how i did.. perverted people have no life. know how to handle the situation
9. you may get pickpocket so you should know how to take care of your belongings.
10. if you have a bag with you, always keep it near your body. when people starts pushing, your bag may get stuck somewhere in between someone's body.
11. be careful when you fall. you may get trampled over(i almost did). always watch your footing. the ground is NOT even.
12. you can use the balloons or cardboard stuff they give to hit people. when you piss them off enough, they'll let you go infront. again, attack the innocent young people.
13. KNOW the lyrics. it's so much more fun when you know it.
14. do not dance in the mosh pit!! you're just pissing people off
15. when everyone starts jumping, push your way up front! be warned tho, it gets really crazy when that happens. time to let the psycho part of you out and PUSH!
16. when you have problem breathing with the amount of carbon dioxide around, tip toe, look up and breathe, or look down and breathe.
17. when it rains, do NOT wear the raincoat they give.
18. if you do want to be in front, wait at least 6hours before the concert starts. and when you have given your ticket, RUN in to get a good spot.
19. know where your favourite band member always stands. wait there
20. you will not remain where you are standing. you may find yourself goin more to the left, right or front(if you're violent) or back(if you let people push you around)
21. when you're stuck somewhere in the middle of the crowd, you might as well go all the way back as you will not see anything. so go back and sit on the ground or headbang at the back.
22. bringing in signs and banners is a pain in the butt. you better not bring any.
23. acting sick so you can get in front is STUPID. cause i n other people'll use that opportunity to cut your line
24.acting all bitchy in there will piss people off. you should understand that people there are all socially challenged and rejected. leave your i-need-attention attitude behind.
25. stand beside a guy so that when the crowd begins to push, you wont get affected much.
26. HAVE FUN! push, stomp, sing, scream, jump, dehydrate, sweat, curse, meet new people and pray for the rain.
a great way of relieving stress and giving a big F you to the world. you scream your hearts out, u get to be violent too(by pushing people around).
i've been to quite a few concerts and i shall give you some tips on how to survive.. especially if you're in the mosh pit.
1. if you're with a friend. never let go of their hand.. if you do, you are sure to be seperated.
2. now is not the time to be nice. cut through the people to get in front! be smart though. dn go cut scary people's place
3. always sneak in water. or buy water before the concert starts.
4. dont get too excited when the opening act begins. it's a waste of energy. seriously.remember, you only have limited amount of water.
5. you've got to be violent.. jump on people's feet. PUSH the people.
6. always ALWAYS wear sport shoes or sneakers
7. DONT wear skirts.. you insane?
8. there's a high possibility you may get groped.. like how i did.. perverted people have no life. know how to handle the situation
9. you may get pickpocket so you should know how to take care of your belongings.
10. if you have a bag with you, always keep it near your body. when people starts pushing, your bag may get stuck somewhere in between someone's body.
11. be careful when you fall. you may get trampled over(i almost did). always watch your footing. the ground is NOT even.
12. you can use the balloons or cardboard stuff they give to hit people. when you piss them off enough, they'll let you go infront. again, attack the innocent young people.
13. KNOW the lyrics. it's so much more fun when you know it.
14. do not dance in the mosh pit!! you're just pissing people off
15. when everyone starts jumping, push your way up front! be warned tho, it gets really crazy when that happens. time to let the psycho part of you out and PUSH!
16. when you have problem breathing with the amount of carbon dioxide around, tip toe, look up and breathe, or look down and breathe.
17. when it rains, do NOT wear the raincoat they give.
18. if you do want to be in front, wait at least 6hours before the concert starts. and when you have given your ticket, RUN in to get a good spot.
19. know where your favourite band member always stands. wait there
20. you will not remain where you are standing. you may find yourself goin more to the left, right or front(if you're violent) or back(if you let people push you around)
21. when you're stuck somewhere in the middle of the crowd, you might as well go all the way back as you will not see anything. so go back and sit on the ground or headbang at the back.
22. bringing in signs and banners is a pain in the butt. you better not bring any.
23. acting sick so you can get in front is STUPID. cause i n other people'll use that opportunity to cut your line
24.acting all bitchy in there will piss people off. you should understand that people there are all socially challenged and rejected. leave your i-need-attention attitude behind.
25. stand beside a guy so that when the crowd begins to push, you wont get affected much.
26. HAVE FUN! push, stomp, sing, scream, jump, dehydrate, sweat, curse, meet new people and pray for the rain.
anticipation
after some time, onerepublic's back with a new album(releasing in nov17). they have released a clip for their song "all the right moves" and it's awesome!!
i was flipping through the channels and stopped at channel V. they were showing the video. though i didnt know who they were at first, their music just made me stop to listen to it. it was after a while when the camera focused on the vocalist did i realize it was ryan. and when i saw it, i pretty much went "ONEREPUBLIC! *gasp*"
now i cant wait for the album to come out. i shall take this opportunity to promote em',
ladies and gentleman,
after the long wait,
ONEREPUBLIC's BACK with a brand new smashing album.
hitting stores this november 17.
i was flipping through the channels and stopped at channel V. they were showing the video. though i didnt know who they were at first, their music just made me stop to listen to it. it was after a while when the camera focused on the vocalist did i realize it was ryan. and when i saw it, i pretty much went "ONEREPUBLIC! *gasp*"
now i cant wait for the album to come out. i shall take this opportunity to promote em',
ladies and gentleman,
after the long wait,
ONEREPUBLIC's BACK with a brand new smashing album.
hitting stores this november 17.
Saturday, November 14, 2009
non-verbal
For this weekend, I was crazy about some cartoons like Mr. Bean, Tom and Jerry. These movies are non-verbal. Was sitting in front of thr TV for hours just to watch it. I was funny and nice!
Some people will think that it is boring to watch it because they do not speak. throughout the movie they will just use their action to do the talking. It actually brings out meaning!
The chasing between tom and jerry and the actions they did it was totally funny and we can see how creative is it! Mr. Bean, we can see that he's using his action to tell people something. He does have emotions.
Some people will think that it is boring to watch it because they do not speak. throughout the movie they will just use their action to do the talking. It actually brings out meaning!
The chasing between tom and jerry and the actions they did it was totally funny and we can see how creative is it! Mr. Bean, we can see that he's using his action to tell people something. He does have emotions.
Sunday, November 8, 2009
2012
are we really going to die in 2012? it seems so weird to have people tell you it's the end of the world. so much for the whole vision 2020 huh? lol.
someone asked me this question once, "what would you do if you found out it's the end of the world tomorrow?" i answered, "i'll shoot myself." i don't know why she glared at me though.
if the world were to end tomorrow, and instead of awaiting for my death(probably in a painful manner), i'd rather end my sufferings now. i don't have to,
1. think about my oncoming doom
2. think too much about how i would die
3. suffer
4. fight for survival(hellooo!! it's the end of the world. die already! shoots some random person)
lol. sorry. but honestly, what would you do if it was the end of the world tomorrow? make amends with the people you've hurt? say your goodbyes? pray to god and ask for forgiveness?
think about it.
someone asked me this question once, "what would you do if you found out it's the end of the world tomorrow?" i answered, "i'll shoot myself." i don't know why she glared at me though.
if the world were to end tomorrow, and instead of awaiting for my death(probably in a painful manner), i'd rather end my sufferings now. i don't have to,
1. think about my oncoming doom
2. think too much about how i would die
3. suffer
4. fight for survival(hellooo!! it's the end of the world. die already! shoots some random person)
lol. sorry. but honestly, what would you do if it was the end of the world tomorrow? make amends with the people you've hurt? say your goodbyes? pray to god and ask for forgiveness?
think about it.
my playlist
PEOPLE OF THE WORLD!! i have my own playlist of songs i want you guys to play fro me when im dead. yes, i have my own funeral playlist and i don't get what's so weird about it. i've had one ever since i was in form 4.
when you die in an abrupt tragedy where you can't say your goodbyes, it's always nice to have a substitute. the songs i've put in are ways for me to say goodbye and for you guys to move on. i guess, you can say it's so that i don't have to linger around the world too. (you know what they say about ghosts wandering around because of unfinished business).
so yes, i believe having a playlist for your funeral is good. i strongly encourage you guys to have one too. like i said, it's a way to tel your goodbyes and tell them all you're in a better place now(even if you're not).
also, when i die, please tell my family i have this playlist. :)
let's enjoy living now.
when you die in an abrupt tragedy where you can't say your goodbyes, it's always nice to have a substitute. the songs i've put in are ways for me to say goodbye and for you guys to move on. i guess, you can say it's so that i don't have to linger around the world too. (you know what they say about ghosts wandering around because of unfinished business).
so yes, i believe having a playlist for your funeral is good. i strongly encourage you guys to have one too. like i said, it's a way to tel your goodbyes and tell them all you're in a better place now(even if you're not).
also, when i die, please tell my family i have this playlist. :)
let's enjoy living now.
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Fear to be on stage!!
There are many skills to public speaking.
For me, I am afraid to be on stage.. sometimes, when I was in the stage, i would come to a stage that i could forget everything and my legs would shiver like no body business..!
To be on stage, it is a oportunity to allow us to speak out our opinion. It isthe time for us to know how to manage our audiences bt not letting them to overlead us. We should also get thier attention to listen to what we are talking.
To gain their attention is not that easy, is to make them feel interested to our topic adnd make them laugh by not letting them get bored of our speech. It is simple practice practice and practice.. The skills of public speaking.. it should be practiced and the preparation of it is also important..
How you act. How you talk, How you express. It all judge how good are you in presenting speech.
~Kelly Tan~
For me, I am afraid to be on stage.. sometimes, when I was in the stage, i would come to a stage that i could forget everything and my legs would shiver like no body business..!
To be on stage, it is a oportunity to allow us to speak out our opinion. It isthe time for us to know how to manage our audiences bt not letting them to overlead us. We should also get thier attention to listen to what we are talking.
To gain their attention is not that easy, is to make them feel interested to our topic adnd make them laugh by not letting them get bored of our speech. It is simple practice practice and practice.. The skills of public speaking.. it should be practiced and the preparation of it is also important..
How you act. How you talk, How you express. It all judge how good are you in presenting speech.
~Kelly Tan~
scares me~! think too much...
went for he halloween party from Help..
That night was a BLAST!! It was really fun tho.. ^^
On that night, soo mae, miki n I.. We were late for that halloween party.. We dont have time to make up and so, we've planned to do that in the car.. lols..
Knowing that the party had started, we tried to rush and juz simply have some draws on our faces for us to look as ugly as possible! As we were making up, our dear friends sneaked out from that party, without us konwing about that.
They planned to scare us with thier attire for that night.. and that did it!!
At first, we were in the car, so busy that we didnt even noticed that they are out there to scare us! they actually hit the car and tried to shake it.. we 3 girls were scare! we were shouting like mad girls over there feeling that there's a real ghost in that party..! we were afraid.. screaming and screaming!
They actually knocked on our door and came into the car to catch us! and guess what, I was scare till my tears rolled down.. Their face look so ugly and scary! congrats to them.. managed to scare us till someone cried!
~Kelly Tan~
That night was a BLAST!! It was really fun tho.. ^^
On that night, soo mae, miki n I.. We were late for that halloween party.. We dont have time to make up and so, we've planned to do that in the car.. lols..
Knowing that the party had started, we tried to rush and juz simply have some draws on our faces for us to look as ugly as possible! As we were making up, our dear friends sneaked out from that party, without us konwing about that.
They planned to scare us with thier attire for that night.. and that did it!!
At first, we were in the car, so busy that we didnt even noticed that they are out there to scare us! they actually hit the car and tried to shake it.. we 3 girls were scare! we were shouting like mad girls over there feeling that there's a real ghost in that party..! we were afraid.. screaming and screaming!
They actually knocked on our door and came into the car to catch us! and guess what, I was scare till my tears rolled down.. Their face look so ugly and scary! congrats to them.. managed to scare us till someone cried!
~Kelly Tan~
Sunday, November 1, 2009
halloween
the beauty of halloween? you can be anyone you want to be. you want to be a frankenstein, superman, witch, drag queen, mummy, cupid........... the list is endless!
it's the time where you let out your creativity, and just go wild. wild with the costume and makeup. it would be cool if we had trick or treat here too. who doesn't want free candies?
i don't think we can judge people on the way they dress here though. my sister's friend dressed up as the digi yellow man. what can you say about him? that he uses digi? it's most likely that he just wants to dress up as one.
like i said, halloween gives us an opportunity for our imagination to go wild. bring on the fangs, i'm gonna be a vampire.. kkkhhhhhhh!!
it's the time where you let out your creativity, and just go wild. wild with the costume and makeup. it would be cool if we had trick or treat here too. who doesn't want free candies?
i don't think we can judge people on the way they dress here though. my sister's friend dressed up as the digi yellow man. what can you say about him? that he uses digi? it's most likely that he just wants to dress up as one.
like i said, halloween gives us an opportunity for our imagination to go wild. bring on the fangs, i'm gonna be a vampire.. kkkhhhhhhh!!
dressings.
people are mostly judged by the way they dress-colour and style.
i tend to dress according to my mood and i believe, many others too. sometimes, im just too darn lazy to get ready so i just slap on a shirt and jeans. the day i did that, everyone assumed i was sick cause i dressed pretty sloppy. funny thing how people judge you on the way you dress.
i think all of us start stereotyping people based on the way they dress. in movies, like those american high schools, you can see how they potray stereotypes. the geeks sit together, cheerleaders and jocks are in another table, the asians in one table and so on.
i think it all comes down to the way they dress. you want to fit in a certain clique, you dress the part then start acting like them. however, you're just deceiving yourself. i don't get all the point of cliques though. what gives the "better people" freedom to bully others? so let's all forget the whole, "oh my god, im a cheerleader, i like so can't be like seen with those loooserss" thing. peace!
i tend to dress according to my mood and i believe, many others too. sometimes, im just too darn lazy to get ready so i just slap on a shirt and jeans. the day i did that, everyone assumed i was sick cause i dressed pretty sloppy. funny thing how people judge you on the way you dress.
i think all of us start stereotyping people based on the way they dress. in movies, like those american high schools, you can see how they potray stereotypes. the geeks sit together, cheerleaders and jocks are in another table, the asians in one table and so on.
i think it all comes down to the way they dress. you want to fit in a certain clique, you dress the part then start acting like them. however, you're just deceiving yourself. i don't get all the point of cliques though. what gives the "better people" freedom to bully others? so let's all forget the whole, "oh my god, im a cheerleader, i like so can't be like seen with those loooserss" thing. peace!
~group 2
Recalled that last week my group and I was doing a short clip for human communication about non-verbal communication. IT WAS SUPER FUNNY!!
At first we were thinking of what should we do.. what scene would be nice and funny to show out. Our group gave everyone a chance to speak out about what should we do, and to sum up all of our opinions, we used every little part of our way.
We've planned to do a short clip about a guy having affair with two girls. It was super funny. We were laughing in every part and scene we were doing. It was totally a BLAST! We girls were so shy to confront Nigel-was the only guy in our group who is having affair with Lisa and I..
Our group which is formally is a tasks group has actually become a social group. We've tried very hard to help each and other without putting our marks the first. I lost love this group! It was Wonderful!! Thank you Mr. Murali for assigning us into groups by not allowing us to assign our group ourselves! haha.. AWESOME~~
~Kelly Tan~
At first we were thinking of what should we do.. what scene would be nice and funny to show out. Our group gave everyone a chance to speak out about what should we do, and to sum up all of our opinions, we used every little part of our way.
We've planned to do a short clip about a guy having affair with two girls. It was super funny. We were laughing in every part and scene we were doing. It was totally a BLAST! We girls were so shy to confront Nigel-was the only guy in our group who is having affair with Lisa and I..
Our group which is formally is a tasks group has actually become a social group. We've tried very hard to help each and other without putting our marks the first. I lost love this group! It was Wonderful!! Thank you Mr. Murali for assigning us into groups by not allowing us to assign our group ourselves! haha.. AWESOME~~
~Kelly Tan~
~groups...
Finding out that social group is actually more interesting than task or project group. That's my opinion for it..
Who do I prefer social group? That is because I can experience many different things and even work and learn at that same time. We can also have the chance to get to know more and get closer with your friends. There's somehow a word called "fun" for social group!
The purpose of it is of course not just fun but to satisfy social needs and to serve. It is also the common form of group. We can form it anywhere we want as long as we have friends gathering together with us.
Whereas, task group is also important. We are to accomplish tasks given. Everyone has a role in it and must be responsible towards it or else we'll be kicked out!! Task group in important because in it, we could learn more and learn to communicate with strangers that is in our group. If we do have interaction problems, this group will be a failure!
I've been to a leadership camp which is I do not know anyone in there. By this I do learnt a lot. Important things that I've learnt is to communicate well and have a good impression towards the other membesr so that our team could work well and they'll turn up by liking us.
~Kelly Tan~
Who do I prefer social group? That is because I can experience many different things and even work and learn at that same time. We can also have the chance to get to know more and get closer with your friends. There's somehow a word called "fun" for social group!
The purpose of it is of course not just fun but to satisfy social needs and to serve. It is also the common form of group. We can form it anywhere we want as long as we have friends gathering together with us.
Whereas, task group is also important. We are to accomplish tasks given. Everyone has a role in it and must be responsible towards it or else we'll be kicked out!! Task group in important because in it, we could learn more and learn to communicate with strangers that is in our group. If we do have interaction problems, this group will be a failure!
I've been to a leadership camp which is I do not know anyone in there. By this I do learnt a lot. Important things that I've learnt is to communicate well and have a good impression towards the other membesr so that our team could work well and they'll turn up by liking us.
~Kelly Tan~
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