Wednesday, September 16, 2009

~compare~

Lots of people do like to compare themselves with others. That goes for me and my life! haha..

Last week, during leadership camp, was the day that I'm comparing myself which is named "social comparison", learnt from Human Communication class. I was comparing physical attributes between myself and my friends.

For some of the games, we actually need to have more strength and a bit of height to get yourself completing all tasks easier. From this moment, I do realised that I'm actually so short and "powerless"! People were saying that I'm so thin, some even admire it but I'm just 38kg!!! My god.. I feel that I'm "too" underweight and its not good at all. They also keep asking how do I maintain myself like that, the fact is I do want to be fat but I don't know how because no matter how much I eat I'll not get fat also. 

This is why I do always compare my weight with others. 

And also! I do re-call that even my brother is also very "good" in comparing with others. He'll be comparing his toys with his friends. For example, he'll always ask my parents why his friend can own the limited edition stuff but my brother can't? Agian, my parents will be mentioning "DO NOT COMPARE", apreciate what you have now.

=> Kelly Tan Mae Mae (B0900609), in da house. <=

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